Wow Shawn is definately a lot more understanding then most guys. It seems I can say anything to him, and sometimes he tells me the why. I have not seen him wrong yet. We had a 4th date last nght. We just talked, and we reconfirmed
the friend status. I am absolutely fine with that. Truth is the last thing I need right now is another relationship. He said he isn't opposed to it but it is way too early to tell and that we need to take it at an extreme snails pace.
I agree with him. I have completely reset my approach and my emotions have fallen in line behind it. We are friends and I am not going to question or wonder or worry about anything else. I have put the anything else out of my mind, and if
it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't but that is waaaaaaaaay in the future. Now I just have to get my libido to behave itself.